This is part 2 of How to Deal With a Cheating Spouse
You can read part 1 below.
Have your family and friend ready for anything, you can even ask for assistance from the police if you think things can go wrong.
If the situation gets emotional and everything in the house is flying, you should run for safety and ask for help.
Go outside and shout for help and do not attempt to return to your house until they will leave unless you are accompanied by the police. You should never try to fight back, make sure you can survive all this.
While you are confronting them, make sure you are near the door to be able to get out quickly when things go wrong. It may also be your home but when they are forceful in actions and words that they do not want to leave, you must be prepared to move your children out of the house and set a place to live in until the dispute can be settled.
They are sometimes caught off guard and will really resort to anger over the situation and will not try to leave the house until they can think of ways to settle their minds. So if you really want to confront them, you must have a hard proof in your hand because there are a lot at stake here and cannot be justified by mere suspicions alone.
You can monitor their behavior and see if anything is unusual like in their appearance and wardrobe it usually is a dead giveaway. You can also monitor their phone bills and see who they have been calling to. If you have not get hold of any evidence then you must be patient in your quest to catch them red handed. Without the evidence they can just deny it or even worse, they are innocent after all.
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