For a teenager like you who just learned that your boyfriend or girlfriend has been cheating on you and you do not know how to do a spying act on them.
If you would ask the older or mature people about this, they just say get over it, or find another girlfriend or boyfriend. Here are some tips to handle on cheating partners.
The first thing to do is to focus on the problem. Ask yourself if your boyfriend or girlfriend knew that they have been cheating on you.
Be careful of the steps that you are planning. Maintain a good etiquette regarding your relationship now.
Although there are much suspicions inside you, you need more proof .Do not confront them in front of many people. The other party might have violent reaction and this will cause a bigger feud between you and them.
As you are still young, don’t despair if you decide to end your relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend. You can end the relationship if you want. If you have only been dating your boyfriend or girlfriend for a short period of time, it may be in your best interest to simply just end the relationship.
Getting into some problem regarding your suspicions will just make you feel insecure and that it bothers your everyday work, or studies if you are still studying. Give time to your self to find another person that needs your love.
During these low moments of your life, we need our friends to be with us. You can ask their help and support. Be honest to tell them the truth that you were cheated by your boyfriends or girlfriends.
You can also listen to your friends advises. Some of them for sure have gone the same situation with you and its best to ask them about it. Or else give your self a break, join exercises to benefit good health.
Or else have a vacation to divert your mind of the anger and self pity that you had been feeling at this moment. By this time you can think much better on how to act over this situation.
One good thing also is you can tell your family of what had happened to your relationship to your boyfriends or girlfriends. I am sure they will not turn their back on you. Your parents can be a shoulder to cry on.
An advice from your parents can be a good help also to help you with your problem. They can make you feel better with their presence and support. Being with your family will give you the chance to at least think over if you really need that partner.
Once you have proof that your boyfriends or girlfriends had been cheating on you then decide whether to end your relationship with them or just dwell with it. You may say you just want to dwell with it because you cannot afford to break-up with your cheating partner because you still love her/him.
In this case you just need to remind yourself that this situation might come back again and that there is always problem that goes with it. Just clear your position to your partner and try to be honest in everything through out the relationship.
During the relationship if you have already had sex it is best that you should be cautious about it. Having multiple partners can expose you to different sexually transmitted infections thus if you want to get back with your cheating partners talk to him/ her to be tested first before starting all over again. This is to protect you both and to clear your minds of the possibility that maybe one of you had been infected already.
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